Our group of a dozen Zumba buddies decided to have a Holiday Party. Myrtle happens to love organizing parties and is a party planner extraordinaire.
She made reservations at the Waikele Country Club. I've never been there or to this kind of island holiday party and didn't know what to expect. We agreed to a $10.00 grab bag instead of worrying about any other gift.
Art's cousin, Renee picked me up and we found our way there. She'd never been there either.
It was a gorgeous day and the temperature was perfect!
We realized then that this was a rather classy place and I wasn't exactly dressed properly. Everyone arriving were dressed beautifully. I thought it was going to be more informal since it was a luncheon and this is Hawaii.
Oh dear!
Then I discovered that everyone had brought little gifts for everybody.
Arrrghhh!
I thought the grab bag alone was supposed to be the gift.
Renee kindly, thoughtfully told everyone that her wrapped macadamia nut cans were from both of us.
Things are done a trifle differently here in Hawaii.
I was just amazed at how creative and generous everyone is. There was one friend who sent little gifts even though she wasn't able to make it. I almost wanted to crawl into a hole and hide.
Of course no one paid my faux pas any mind and soon the meal arrived. I was surprised that we could all order whatever we wanted and the restaurant had agreed to give us separate checks. That's 11 separate checks. The staff was attentive, friendly and very helpful.
And yes, the food was delicious. I had a Chinese steamed salmon dish that I loved and it was under $14.00.
Myrtle had a whole arsenal of party games that were tons of fun.
There was a game where we had to put a cardboard and paper on our heads and draw a snowman. Then we voted on the winner by putting a sticker on that sheet. Irene won... hands up! I didn't even recognize the scribble I did. Myrtle also had us eat a hard boiled egg saying that the first person who could whistle after that was the winner. Renee won!
Another game was hilarious. You had to translate the pidgin to a Christmas song. There was: Eh, manini-size home turf of Jesus (Oh Little Town of Bethlehem).
I loved: I going stay come bumbye to da hale on da 25th. (I'll Be Home For Christmas)
Surprisingly, I got 7 out of 10 correct even though I've lived on the mainland for 35 years. I didn't win. Someone did get 9 of them right. Amazing!
There were quite a few more games and while we were eating, Myrtle had us tell everyone something that nobody knew about us. It was hilarious!
The grab bag was played a little differently. Myrtle read a poem directing each person how to pick a grab bag and who to exchange it with.
On the mainland, I didn't much enjoy the white elephant grab bag where you kept taking a bag away from someone and having the game sometimes last way too long, often leaving a little taste of disappointment along the way. This way, we were all happy and excited about our gifts.
Now that I know what the parties are like here in Hawaii, I'll be more ready for the next one. I've already told Myrtle she needs to organize another one next year.
She's already set the date!
She made reservations at the Waikele Country Club. I've never been there or to this kind of island holiday party and didn't know what to expect. We agreed to a $10.00 grab bag instead of worrying about any other gift.
Art's cousin, Renee picked me up and we found our way there. She'd never been there either.
It was a gorgeous day and the temperature was perfect!
We realized then that this was a rather classy place and I wasn't exactly dressed properly. Everyone arriving were dressed beautifully. I thought it was going to be more informal since it was a luncheon and this is Hawaii.
Oh dear!
Then I discovered that everyone had brought little gifts for everybody.
Arrrghhh!
I thought the grab bag alone was supposed to be the gift.
Renee kindly, thoughtfully told everyone that her wrapped macadamia nut cans were from both of us.
Things are done a trifle differently here in Hawaii.
I was just amazed at how creative and generous everyone is. There was one friend who sent little gifts even though she wasn't able to make it. I almost wanted to crawl into a hole and hide.
Of course no one paid my faux pas any mind and soon the meal arrived. I was surprised that we could all order whatever we wanted and the restaurant had agreed to give us separate checks. That's 11 separate checks. The staff was attentive, friendly and very helpful.
And yes, the food was delicious. I had a Chinese steamed salmon dish that I loved and it was under $14.00.
Myrtle had a whole arsenal of party games that were tons of fun.
There was a game where we had to put a cardboard and paper on our heads and draw a snowman. Then we voted on the winner by putting a sticker on that sheet. Irene won... hands up! I didn't even recognize the scribble I did. Myrtle also had us eat a hard boiled egg saying that the first person who could whistle after that was the winner. Renee won!
Another game was hilarious. You had to translate the pidgin to a Christmas song. There was: Eh, manini-size home turf of Jesus (Oh Little Town of Bethlehem).
I loved: I going stay come bumbye to da hale on da 25th. (I'll Be Home For Christmas)
Surprisingly, I got 7 out of 10 correct even though I've lived on the mainland for 35 years. I didn't win. Someone did get 9 of them right. Amazing!
There were quite a few more games and while we were eating, Myrtle had us tell everyone something that nobody knew about us. It was hilarious!
The grab bag was played a little differently. Myrtle read a poem directing each person how to pick a grab bag and who to exchange it with.
On the mainland, I didn't much enjoy the white elephant grab bag where you kept taking a bag away from someone and having the game sometimes last way too long, often leaving a little taste of disappointment along the way. This way, we were all happy and excited about our gifts.
Now that I know what the parties are like here in Hawaii, I'll be more ready for the next one. I've already told Myrtle she needs to organize another one next year.
She's already set the date!









What fun! And I'm sure your presence was enjoyed as much by your Zumba friends as your blog is enjoyed by me! :-)
ReplyDeleteI doubt if any of your little mistakes were noticed by anyone but you. Your pictures do a great job of showing what a fun party it was.
ReplyDeletewhat a fun luncheon! Reminds me I have to dress up for a dinner later this week! I recognize bath and bodyworks products there...I've bought a lot of that this year for gifts.
ReplyDeleteLooks like fun with lovely food. Usually, "the rules" and "instructions" are given beforehand, so that little blunders are avoided, but maybe they assumed. Eh, if any zumba buddies read your blog, they'll know you didn't know beforehand. You're very good with the Pidgin translation! I can't even translate shortened license plates. DrumMajor
ReplyDeleteI'm sure everybody assumed I would know. A lot of these customs and ways of doing things are second nature to local people. I'm learning slowly and I expect to do a few more blunders along the way.
DeleteKay, you are becoming the social butterfly. LOL
ReplyDeleteWhen I was on the mainland (Heifer Ranch, Arkansas) they did that Christmas grab bag exchange too, and called it a Yankee gift exchange. I found it quite cruel, taking presents away from vols who really wanted or needed a certain thing.
I'd love to learn more about Pidgin.
What a great Christmas party. I attended one at the Outrigger Canoe Club in Waikiki so I know how dressed up people are there. Good health and happiness to you!
ReplyDeleteSo what was the thing no one knew about you?
ReplyDeleteThat I'm an easy mark for pick pocketers because they've gone for me in Paris, Spain, Portugal, etc. I must look like I'm not paying attention. That's why I never carry anything too important. I also try to be be more vigilant now since I must look clueless.
DeleteI Like snowy weather so Christmas in Hawaii seemed weird to me. Mele KamikiMaka Dianne
ReplyDeletesounds fun, all my Christmas parties are over and it's only dec 16th...lol!
ReplyDeletemust of been a fun party
ReplyDeleteThis must have been a lot of fun, Kay. The world needs more Myrtles.
ReplyDeleteNo kidding! She actually ENJOYS organizing parties. It always stresses me out, but she likes it. I love it! I told her I'd want her to organize all our parties.
DeleteIt sounds like you were able to overcome your discomfort when the food arrived. :)
ReplyDeleteBringing little gifts for everyone is quite a lot. I would have thought that's why the grab bag gift. But then I hear gift giving is very important is some Asian cultures. We get away from that here on the mainland.
The Waikele Club is quite something from the outside! I'm jealous!
ReplyDeleteWow, what fun! I love your updates Kay.
ReplyDeleteOh dear...but it sounds like a lovely time anyway....
ReplyDeleteThe club looks beautiful Kay. And how very awkward. It is hard to knwo what to expect at these kind of things but now you will for the next time. It sounded like lots of fun and i love the games.
ReplyDeleteAh, looks so fun and makes me want to be in Hawaii! I am often clueless about things like party gifts etc. While it is embarrassing I think most people don"t really notice or care as much as we do!! I hope you enjoy your holidays!!
ReplyDeleteI'm surprised at the way people will sometimes be very extravagant when you don't expect it. I had a casual get-together yesterday, and one guest showed up with a huge salad, a fancy dessert, and a mini-Christmas tree, and another guest brought me a hand-made ceramic!
ReplyDeleteI'll bet the people at this gathering were showing off, a little, and I kind of admire your modesty.
How fun this all seemed. I hate it when I don't realize a gift was in order and I come empty handed. I'm glad you had a great time.
ReplyDeletea $14 lunch, you should be able to order what you like.
ReplyDeleteWhat fun! I loved the pigeon translations. My faux pas was to forget I didn't have enough wrapping paper for my get-together with friends last Saturday. Rather than wrap up a few I decided to go without for all, but no one minded. I had them close their eyes and placed the pillow - my gift - in their laps.
ReplyDeleteclass-EEEEEEEE!
ReplyDeleteI'm finally spending some "quiet" time and catching up on some of your blogs. Don't feel badly about not bringing little gifts for everyone at the party. I too, didn't realize the others were going to do that especially since we had the grab bag. I was quite embarrassed and will know better at our next party. By the way, I love your "panty" blog...haha!!
ReplyDeleteHi Pat! I'm so glad to know I wasn't the only one. Thank you so much for your comment!
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