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Monday, May 14, 2012

Update on Mom

Mom's tear duct surgery area started to look pretty red and puffy, but we kept applying the drops, putting on the salve and icing it.  We knew it would take time to heal.  Then it started to look pretty good so we were very hopeful and mom started her usual routine of watering her plants and doing the laundry.  She said that sitting and lying around just made her feel sicker.

Then things turned ugly.  The stitch area started to swell and no amount of icing it was helping.  Icing was probably not the best thing for it in retrospect.

When we brought her in for her post-surgery appointment, the nurse was shocked.  She called the doctor right away.  I felt really bad that we didn't just bring her in earlier, but mom kept insisting that she wanted to just wait for her scheduled appointment.

The doctor said it was infected and that he would have to make a cut to get the pus out.  I asked if it would hurt and he looked at me and tried to be honest, yet not be an alarmist.  "It's going to hurt," he said grimly.

Then he thought about it and said we could try an antibiotic first.  Mom agreed to the pills quickly.  This was on Wednesday and he said if it didn't show progress by Friday he'd have to take the pus out.

We started the antibiotic quickly and on Thursday, pus and blood started to ooze out on its own. The swelling went down.  The redness faded a bit.  Friday morning, I was alarmed to see her stitches had come apart and the incision was open.  However, the swelling was really down.

When we brought mom in to see the doctor later in the day he said that it looked much better.  Really?  He said that nature had done on its own what he would have had to do.  Really?  Mom was sitting there grinning from ear to ear.  There is some scabbing and I hope it continues to heal well, but at least the crisis is over... for now.

That a relief!

23 comments:

  1. Very, very scary! I am so sorry your Mom is having to go through this Kay and hope she feels 100 percent real soon.

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  2. Glad your mom is doing much better and out of the woods. It's so good that she keeps a schedule of daily activities at home, her yard work and cooking....everyone tells us not to stop my dad from working so hard doing his wood and concrete projects because once he stops he'll go downhill. I guess when you get older, keeping busy is good medicine. As long as your mom can do all that she does, with your supervision living with her, what better scenario could there be.

    L. from W.

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  3. Any surgery on the eyes is scary. Glad the worst is over, Kay. I am seeing my surgeon today for a recheck on my infection. Still taking Augmentin -- no side-effects whatsoever.

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  4. Oh dear. I know just how your mom feels, though. Hope she feels better soon.

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  5. Having been through eye surgery twice, I really empathize with your mom and am glad she's healing. She's so blessed to have you and Art there for her.

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  6. That sounds really scary! So glad your mom is getting better and hope she will heal well.

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  7. thank goodness she's healing, tell her best wishes from Canada, gotta take care of those peepers!!! I know what vision loss is all about, don't want to go there! Infection is a scary thing around the eyes!

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  8. So pleased that it's healing. Gosh what a frightening mess this has been.

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  9. That is good. I hope it all continues to heal. What a worry for you.

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  10. That is really scary, but the news is good. I am glad they didn't have to cut it open but that it happened on its own. I hope she will be okay soon. there are lots of us who care about her! :-)

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  11. EEK!!!! That was so scary. I've had more than my share of infection stuff and that scares me. So glad it is better and healing!

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  12. what a scare, may it continue to heal...

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  13. I'm really trying HARD not to get my mind movie going as you describe your mother's eye. Oh my! It gives me the shudders. Thank goodness the worst seems to be behind her, and you.

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  14. Please tell your Mom, (our?) Mom, that DrumMajor said to not be so tough and go to the doc sooner! Jeepers! I'm a nurse and didn't want to hear the wound be THAT yucky....oh, bleh, gag, gag. If she won't go to the doc sooner in the future, at least dab some sake on it. Sounds like the end of a bad boxing match. Hope she stays better. DrumMajor

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  15. glad everthing's healing up.

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  16. Looks like you all dodged something really painful. I'm glad.

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  17. Yikes! Glad to hear she's on the road to recovery.

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  18. Gosh, I'm sorry I didn't scroll down your page sooner. I missed this. I'm so glad Mom is better and on the mend. Give her my love and a big Texas (((HUG)))!

    I hope she is ALL well by the time you get this.

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