Our daughter, Tiffany and her family left on Sunday and it feels like the air is a little empty in the house. There's a certain energy that is gone. I still hear KC's voice chattering away. "Could you please come play with me?"
Our days have been very busy and we have a lot of catching up to do. We're still working on our Japan Trip Album. When I showed it to KC with all the speech bubbles, she asked me to do the same for the album I'll be doing about their visit. She even told me some things she wanted put in such as "Where's Grandpa?"
I have a lot of memories to put into her album. The speech bubble above her head will read, "Let's ride the pineapple train, grandpa!" This is from the Dole Pineapple Plantation.
The night before they left, my brother, Dennis came for dinner. KC had a great time showing him the photos she'd taken with the camera that grandpa let her use. We were all astounded at how quickly she learned to use the telephoto, take a photo, review, and delete. The speech bubble here over Dennis' head could read, "Oh wow! You take as many photos as your grandmother."
Our last day was spent playing house with KC. Grandpa has endless patience eating KC's cooking. No sooner was she done cooking breakfast when she'd start lunch in case she might lose her captive diners.
Our days have been very busy and we have a lot of catching up to do. We're still working on our Japan Trip Album. When I showed it to KC with all the speech bubbles, she asked me to do the same for the album I'll be doing about their visit. She even told me some things she wanted put in such as "Where's Grandpa?"
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| KC and her grandpa at Dole Pineapple Plantation |
I have a lot of memories to put into her album. The speech bubble above her head will read, "Let's ride the pineapple train, grandpa!" This is from the Dole Pineapple Plantation.
The night before they left, my brother, Dennis came for dinner. KC had a great time showing him the photos she'd taken with the camera that grandpa let her use. We were all astounded at how quickly she learned to use the telephoto, take a photo, review, and delete. The speech bubble here over Dennis' head could read, "Oh wow! You take as many photos as your grandmother."
Our last day was spent playing house with KC. Grandpa has endless patience eating KC's cooking. No sooner was she done cooking breakfast when she'd start lunch in case she might lose her captive diners.
And yes, we did take one LAST trip to Mountain Magic Shave Ice at Waikele between Sports Authority and Old Navy. Interestingly, KC shared a shave ice with her mom and then proceeded to also "share" with me finishing my melona flavored treat also. This is the first time I've seen her able to eat so much. She's definitely growing up!
I gave her a bath and Grandpa read her a final story before we drove them to the airport. At dinner, KC turned to Art and me sadly saying, "I'm going to miss you."
"We'll miss you, too," we told her. "However, we'll be coming to see you in fall. Won't that be a lot of fun?"
"And we can Skype!" she laughed.
I found it interesting that like her mother, when it was time to say goodbye, KC didn't want to meet our eyes. Before leaving the house she gave Aachan (my mom) a sweet hug and said, "Sayonara!"
Art and I will be spending our days now catching up on chores around the house and just keeping busy. Ed, our son-in-law has just told us that he has upgraded our flight to Illinois to First Class with his miles. Yahoo! We can hardly wait.



That sweet sorrow of parting. Good that KC has a way of handling it.
ReplyDeleteIn the last photo here you can really see how she has grown.
My grandkids are coming from Australia in June!
Kay, in the fall you can tell the rest of us what first class is like. I have flown only "sardine class."
I've only flown in First Class when we were upgraded for some odd reason. We would NEVER pay for it. It does make a difference in your travel, but not enough to make it worth the cost for us.
DeleteLucky you! Your grandkids are coming next month. Yae!!!
Such an tender sweet/sad post. Yes, I know the feeling well. My partings are no longer sad, like yours. Thankfully you can look forward to your being together in the fall. I know we always calculated how long it would be between visits when we parted.
ReplyDeleteSigh... I wish my kids lived here too. Sigh...
DeleteI'll experience the same sorrow when Lisa leaves for grad school next month. But, we'll see her again for Christmas, so not to worry. KC has really grown taller. I am amazed. What a sweet child.
ReplyDeleteThat's the hard part of living in such different places: having to say goodbye. But as KC said, you can Skype in the meantime! I find that to be a wonderful substitute in the interim. :-)
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you have the fall trip planned. It doesn't make it easy to see them leave, but hopefully it helps a little.
ReplyDeleteloving family visits help the absences...keep busy and it will soon be fall!
ReplyDeleteyou folks will need a week to recover.
ReplyDeleteah,,, sosad to see them go, I enjoyed their visit too!
ReplyDeleteThe house does seem different when the grandchildren or child leaves! Sounds like you had such a wonderful visit and KC has grown in leaps and bounds Kay!!!!
ReplyDeleteSaying goodbye is always hard and I can understand your daughter's reluctance to meet your eyes. Your grand daughter has such wonderful memories, as do you, of her stay with you. And yes, I know the silence in your home right now is deafening.
ReplyDeleteThankfully you have wonderful memories that will remain with you. A lovely post, great photos.
ReplyDeleteI do know how hard it is to say goodbye, but you do have such wonderful memories and fall will be here before you know it!! I know it is really, really quiet!! Have a good week and enjoy your wonderful memories!!
ReplyDeleteSylvia
Wow what a nice parting gift from your son-in-law.
ReplyDeleteOur grandson did the same thing. I still remember how he sat in the car and did not say goodbye as they parted. I felt confused and sad. But it took my husband to point out that it was too painful for him to say goodbye. The weekend before that he cried so much going home that he threw up in the car. So sad to see a young child having to cope...must have tugged at your heart strings.
So very fortunate, that at least you are all able to travel and visit so often. Lots to plan and look forward to.
L. from W.
Oh dear... Thank goodness KC could cope with it. They did Skype us half an hour after they got home. KC looked like she was ready to fall asleep, but they had to call first.
DeleteOne of my grandkids took a lot of photos once, and I was struck by the LOOKING UP AT THE WORLD PERSPECTIVE. There were a lot of tree trunk legs and distant heads.
ReplyDeleteAt first she stood too close to her subject when taking the photos and she was too impatient to really review her work. She's improving slowly. It's interesting to see what she wanted to take photos of.
Deletetears in my eyes, I hate goodbyes! I guess sayonara says it better. Assuming it's more like 'au revoir'!
ReplyDeleteSigh... No...
DeleteSayonara means farewell.
I bet your autumn trip seems ages away at the moment, but I bet the time will fly by.
ReplyDeleteWonderful to read sbout your happy thriving family!
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your blessings with us! What a perfect visit.
ReplyDeleteFriendly Aloha from Waikiki
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Just a delightful visit. Did I ever tell you that my eldest granddaughter told me that I never put my camera down. It was true. Now we haven't seen her in a year, and I miss her.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the note about my pictures. I confess that most of them are run through Photoshop before I put them here.
You must feel sad when you take leave of your daughter and her family. I hate taking leave and find it difficult. I saw my daughter in 2010
ReplyDeletefor the last time. My grandchildren have changed so much in the meantime. I will see them in July fortunately!