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Friday, March 23, 2012

The Last 24 Hours Together

We've been waiting several long months for Jon and Sarah to arrive and suddenly we were at the last 24 hours before they were to leave.  How did three weeks fly by so quickly?


On Monday night we went to Palazzo Ristorante Italiano in Aiea.  They have the best bread appetizers.  Mom and I had Scallops Piccate and Art had calamari.


Sarah had a Clam Linguine and Jon had a chicken dish.  Everything was so rich and tasty.

When Jon and Sarah first arrived, they said they couldn't wait to eat some of their favorite food items.  They got to eat most of them during their visit:
1.  Shave ice
2.  Guava chiffon cake
3.  Dream cake
4.  Poke  (chopped raw fish in sauce)
5.  Grandma's lemon chicken
6.  Saimin (noodles)
7.  mochi
8. A Hawaiian plate lunch AND...
9.  Ted's chocolate haupia pie


On this last evening... on the way home from the restaurant, we picked up the pie and it was WONDERFUL!
 
Then there were a million things to do.  It amazed us how they could relax and enjoy talking and being with us and then start scrambling to do everything they needed to do before leaving.  This included Jon giving himself a buzz cut!  He didn't want to bother with his hair during their travels to South America.

The following morning, mom passed by him, stopped abruptly and did a double take.  She couldn't figure out how long-haired Jon could have gotten a haircut when she was with him at 8:00 the night before.


It's not my favorite look for him, but Sarah says she's used to it.  This is how he looked when he was a fire fighter at Los Alamos.



They ate blueberry muffins that I baked for them and had a leisurely breakfast.  Then came the scramble again of collecting their gear, repacking items, and weighing their packs.

I prepared lunches for them to eat on the flight to Los Angeles.

The strangest thing happened while I made their sandwiches, adding in some Big Island cookies and an apple.  Tears started to well up and everything became a blur.  I remembered making peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for Jon's school lunch.  I actually felt a pain in my heart.

Jon and Sarah said their good-byes to grandma.  She reached up and gave him a hug.  That was a surprise!  Mom is starting to hug her grandchildren!

Jon said in two years, we should all go to Japan together with KC and have the four generations together.  It's something to dream about.

I was going to take a photo of their room when they were getting organized.  It was like a tornado had gone through.

However, when I remembered to get my camera an hour later, everything was neat as a pin.  Bedding was folded for the laundry.  The room was totally clean!




Too soon, it was time to go to Honolulu International Airport.  Jon is carrying the rather large lunch I packed for them. 

  "Dad?  How about doing SCUBA diving with us next time, hunh?"   


It was harder than usual letting them go this time.  They are on their way to L.A., then to Florida... then to Bogota, Columbia and then Ecuador.  They'll be spending time there learning Spanish before returning to the East coast in September where they will begin their graduate studies.

I found beautiful letters from each of them when we returned home from the airport with a gift card to take mom to Ichiriki restaurant since she was too ill to go the other night.

The house is so quiet!

32 comments:

  1. I have thoroughly enjoyed Jon and Sarah's visit; thank you for sharing it with us. They are a lovely couple (and Jon is so handsome, even without hair!)

    I got tears in my own eyes when I read about the sandwiches.

    Feel better soon.

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  2. Aw, how nice of them to write thank you letters and include a gift card. That's so sweet. I loved all of the pictures in this post and the previous ones. Maybe, they will send you photos of their travels. That would be so cool.

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  3. Dear Kay,
    I have also enjoyed their visit with you! Thank you for allowing us this pleasure! I so understand what you mean about the peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, I wonder how many we made have made between the two of us? "Kay Made Sandwiches" could be our restaurant!

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  4. Oh Kay, what a most wonderful visit you guys have had. Made me tear too. I know how hard it is to say goodbye since our sweet Afton lives in LA now. I can hardly take her to the airport anymore and make another family member do it.

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  5. tears in my eyes! I know what you mean about the pain in your heart! Such thoughtful kids too. Wonderful idea about that 2 year reunion, God willing as I always say.

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  6. They live an exciting life. I don't remember my youth being that much fun. I would miss them too. I'm happy to live near my son's family.

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  7. What a wonderful son you have. Thoughtful and I'm sure it's because you raised Jon well. Sarah is such a blessing to you and your family, I am glad you had them right there for three short weeks! I feel like I know them, too! :-)

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  8. I know those 3 weeks flew by but you made some wonderful memories. It was fun to see all the activities of their visit with you.

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  9. It has indeed been delightful sharing their visit through your wonderful photos! And how time does fly when you're having fun and particularly, fun with loved ones! You have a wonderful, beautiful family, Kay! I can feel the emptiness now that Jon and Sarah are gone. But they'll be back with lots of new adventures to share with you! Have a good weekend!

    Sylvia

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  10. your post brought tears to my eyes this morning, I think because my son just left from his visit home also.I must tell you i enjoyed your posts of their visit so much and the git card they left for your mum was such a lovely thing to so,I also smiled when you said she started hugging the grandchildren, I know from persomel experience this is something very special for Japanese grandma's, well maybe not all but most, showing emotions so openly, thankyou for sharing.

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  11. This post brought tears to my eyes. It spoke of deep love, children embracing the world and all it has to offer them, family fun, and muc more. You and Art have done yourselves proud with these kids.

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  12. I know you'll miss them, but what a wonderful visit, Kay. Your family is remarkable, and I'm SO happy for you. I love the picture of your mom discovering Jon's haircut!
    Beautiful post for today.
    K

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  13. You must be feeling so flat and desolate now, especially after such an extended stay and with so much happening. I know how my heart aches when I say goodbye to my sons, and they're only a three hour drive away. I can't imagine what it must be like to say goodbye for an uncertain length of time until you sees them again. Thank goodness for Skype!

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  14. Gosh, Jon looks older with the shorter hair. They crammed alot of adventure into their time with you. It's okay to rest a few days. You have lots of great photos. Really sweet kids. Sounds like they'll keep in touch and send photos to you. DrumMajor

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  15. Oi, another tough goodbye for you. I have tears even just from writing this.

    Jon looks very serious with the new haircut.

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  16. What a great visit. I know you hated to see them leave. I must say, Sarah was packed down wan't she? They sure had a lot of mile yet to travel. I think there has to be enough for a free ticket in all of that.

    Thank goodness for modern communication options we have now. I know you are using all of them.

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  17. The saga of Jon and Sarah's visit has formed a coherent aesthetic whole. Very touching and family oriented. And all the smiles...! Very wholesome and enjoyable. The whole episode could be edited, printed up as a booklet and added to a similar booklet next time your daughter visits. The result would be the greatest Christmas card of all Christmas cards!

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  18. What a glorious time you had!!! Thanks for sharing it with us!!!!

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  19. Kay, it is very hard to let our children go isn't it! Especially in your case because they are going out of the country. That 3 weeks went flying by!! Safe travels for them!

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  20. You have raised a wonderful son with an excellent taste in women. You must be feeling so blessed. What a darling couple they are and so suited for each other.
    I laughed out loud at your Mom's expression when she saw Jon's buzz cut. Amazing how empty a house gets when our loved ones move on.

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  21. Usually a silent stalker of your blog, I have to tell you . . . you have me bawling right now.

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  22. Bon voyage to your wonderful son and friend!

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  23. Oh it's so difficult to say goodbye! When I have to take leave of my daughter in Australia I really must try not to start crying all the time.

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  24. Oh, Kay, I'm getting weepy now too. Parting is such sweet sorrow.
    What a remarkable son you have, and he has found a wonderful partner. Find joy in that.

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  25. What a great visit you had! I know you and Art were sorry to see them go, but I know Jon will keep in touch.

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  26. It moistened my eyes too .Such is a mother's heart ,recently my kids were away from me for three days .All three nights I could not sleep at all.
    Your mom hugging the grandkids part made me smile :)
    God bless your beautiful family .

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  27. This has been a pleasure for your blog pals, so it must have been bliss for you !

    Safe Journey young' uns


    Aloha from Honolulu
    Comfort Spiral

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  28. Oh wow, it was wonderful to see them but even I felt this post tugging at my heart strings. Happy traveling to them and I can't wait to hear what happens next. So many more adventures in store for them and for you, and a trip to the East Coast maybe?

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  29. awww...it is so hard to say good-bye...hugs..

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  30. Oh, parting is not sweet sorrow...it is heartbreaking. Hugs to you.

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  31. Isn't it sad sending them off?
    My son lives in Vancouver, haven't seen the other one since Oct., and he lives a little more than an hour away. He does have a hot girlfriend and a great social life!
    sigh

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