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Wednesday, September 28, 2011

KC's First Day of Pre-School

KC actually missed the first week of pre-school because she and her parents were in Singapore.  They were there to keep her daddy company doing computer techie work.  Tif tells me they had a wonderful time despite the HEAT and humidity in that immaculate city.  Is that the place you get flogged if you drop gum on the street?  Tif says there are cameras everywhere.

Oh oh... I'm getting distracted.

It made me smile to see my little girl dressed to take her daughter to school.  There's a term for women who live north of Chicago.  It's called "Northshore Moms."   Tif says she thinks it's more an insult.  It's to describe women who live in the more affluent areas north of Chicago.  No, they don't live in the affluent area, but seeing her dressed up made me think of it.  Actually, I just thought she looked mighty nice and elegant.  I was proud of how nicely she grew up.  I went to my room and put on make-up.  Funny thing.  I usually go without make-up in Hawaii.  In Chicago, I tend to put it on.  It's a lot more casual in Hawaii.

Oh oh.... I'm getting distracted again.

Today was KC's first day of pre-school.  Because she is home with her mom all the time, KC has a difficult time separating from her.  She's also been with both parents for several weeks so that makes the transition more difficult.

I told her before we dropped her off how excited I was about going with her to her school.  I gave her an assignment to tell us what the happiest, most fun thing was when she came home.  She replied, "Well... Grandma, I'd better tell my teacher to write it down because I might forget."

I told her, "No, you have to make sure you remember all the details so you can tell us.  However, I just know you'll be able to do this."

She went in happily and showed us where her coat went and I got to meet her three teachers. 

Parting was still difficult and they had to peel KC off from her mom's legs, but it was quick, painless and we were out the door in a flash.  Did it bother me?  Not one iota.  I was a teacher and I've seen enough of this to know her tears would stop by the time we got to the parking lot. 

When we picked KC up, she'd remembered to tell us what she enjoyed and who she played with.  She said her teachers showed everybody where KC had been on the map.  Singapore is very far away.

Although KC loves ballet class, Tif encouraged her to skip it today in favor of a nap.  We all took a nap this afternoon!

18 comments:

  1. We don't have grandchildren to see through their first day at school. But I vividly remember my elder son's early days. He found it incredibly difficult to part from me and for several days his teacher telephoned at break time to let me know he was okay - I didn't ask her to do this but he was obviously rather more distressed than usual. I eventually found that giving him an envelope each morning with a little note in it, or something tiny from home worked brilliantly and although it took a long time he eventually settled well. My younger son on the other hand had absolutely no problems at all and happily waved me off each day. I do hope that KC settles well and quickly.

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  2. Both of my youngest granddaughters started preschool (and ballet) this year and both did a little leg-clinging. I think that is actually harder on the moms than it is on the kids. It is great that KC rememembered what she did to tell you about it.

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  3. fun that you could be there for this important time in your grandchild's life to make it easier...I'm off to visit my 8 year old grandson in Santa Fe...

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  4. How sweet! I love the last picture of KC in her adorable outfit. Life is hard sometimes, but this is one that she will remember as an adventure, because everybody is so kind to her. It's great that you were there, Kay.

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  5. How wonderful to share in the first day of school for your granddaughter. Yes, your daughter is a lady to be proud of, she is beautiful, poised and a loving Mom. So what if she is a north shore Mom, or like one? The most involved parents have kids who will turn out to be the best students. My DIL, daughter, and step-daughter were all similar and their kids are great. Parents are very important.

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  6. My grandkids have never displayed any separation anxiety when dropped off at my home.

    However, when my daughters were that age, they always cried hysterically for HOURS when left with my mom or MIL or SIL. Unbelievable.

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  7. Glad you are there to offer support to KC and Tif. I imagine change must be stressful for little ones too, let alone a bit jet lagged, although children are quite resilient as you well observed.

    How fortunate they are to have had an extended stay in a foreign city. It must have been quite an experience, and though KC might not recall every moment, I'm sure the sense feel of such a beautiful city will leave an imprint.

    L.

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  8. Also, your daughter is so elegant and well dressed. I guess I'm comparing her to my son and daughter, having grown up in Hawaii. Seems everyone dresses so much better in the mainland (more formal?) than here in Hawaii and of course that must leave an imprint and influence more than just clothing.

    L.

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  9. KC loves her grandma, I can tell. I´m glad she was ok, after her first day of school.

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  10. Kay, that was really great of you to tell KC to remember what her most fun thing for the day was. That way she will be thinking of that and not where is her Mom. Very clever of you! Glad she had a good day and it wasn't too painful parting in the a.m.

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  11. A big educational milestone today for KC.
    Oh Kay, when did Tiffany and Naomi become these lovely grown-up women? Wasn't it yesterday that we were taking them to kindergarten?

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  12. best of luck to kc...i hope someday when she is someone, she will look at these pics and this post and it will be like sweet memories :)

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  13. I think it's very nice that you can share these rites of passage with your family.
    I'm looking forward to a family visit myself in just a few weeks.
    I too am pretty informal here. In Hawaii hair is not a problem but is usually silky due to the humidity, so we don't have fussy hairdos, and it's too humid for makeup. We don't have to wear pantyhose either!

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  14. Tiffany looks beautiful and elegant .Good to know that KCs first day to school was smooth.Best wishes on this milestone to her ,her parents .her grandparents and also great grandparents.

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  15. I'm sure you all deserved an afternoon nap.

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  16. Oh how sweet. And I agree Tif looks beautiful and she must have been anxious too to see her baby go off to school. A big day in everyone's lives. At least you have seen this over and over Kay given your years as a teacher. A very sweet post.

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  17. Singapore: Where they flog you for dropping gum on the street?

    Not quite. Gum is illegal there.
    However they will fine you ($300 or so) for dropping litter on the street.

    They will flog you, on the bare buttocks, bent forward at the waist over a frame, for damaging property (as was discovered by that American lad who for a "joke" spray painted cars belonging to other people with graffitti - he had well & truly stopped laughing by the time he was unstrapped from the triangle).

    They will also flog those who grope (even lightly) a female. And for many other offences, including robbery.

    Once upon a time (1970's?) Singapore would refuse entry at the border to males with "long hair".

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