I was 20 when I took my first trip out of Hawaii. I went to Japan and stayed for three weeks at my grandfather's temple meeting relatives I'd only heard about but never met in person. I spent a lot of time with my cousin, Masako and her rambunctious baby brother, Norio. Everybody thought it was humorous that the first English word I probably taught Norio was, "no." Masako was in kindergarten at the time.I took this photo of the Tanabata festival that I went to with my grandmother, Masako and Norio. We'd gone to an evening kindergarten program to see Masako and her classmates perform. It is still such a beautiful, happy memory.
With letters and the advent of computers, we've been able to maintain contact. Masako has visited us in Chicago and we've spent time with her and the rest of the family in Sendai.
I e-mailed Masako after the earthquake and got this reply yesterday from her.
"I am sorry that I could not reply to you earlier regarding the heavy earthquake which hit Tohoku area. I think you must have been very worried.
We are all okay, including my brother Norio’s family and the relatives in Shichigahama. I am thankful that we are alive, considering the fact so many people lost their lives by this earthquake.
In Miyagi prefecture, more than 6,000 people’s death was confirmed as of today, and the number is increasing everyday. Since there are still many people unidentified and not found yet, I don’t know how many people were actually killed. Many of them were killed by the tsunami which hit coastal areas on the Pacific.
And there is one more great problem which troubles us now. That is radioactive contamination in Fukushima atomic power plant. In Fukushima, there is a big atomic power plant of Tokyo Electric Power Company. (The electricity for Kanto area is produced in Fukushima, not in Kanto.) Since Fukushima plants were damaged by the earthquake, radioactivity continues to leak. The air, the sea, soil are being contaminated. The nation prohibited shipment of some vegetables, milk produced in some areas.
Several days ago, the water purification plant which supplies water to Tokyo areas, showed the relatively high number of radioactivity and the government recommended not to give tap water to babies under 1 year old. So, people rushed to buy mineral waters, and mineral waters are not easy to gain now. A few days ago, the government cancelled this announcement because the number of the Tokyo purification plant showed lower levels, but I am not sure if it is really safe or not. Since my son needs powder milk besides breast milk, I am really worried about the water contamination problem. Not all mineral waters are good for babies, since the high minerals are a burden for the kidneys. Low mineral content in waters under 30% per liter are desirable. Please do not worry so much. I could already secure enough stock of mineral waters with the help of my husband.
For three days after earthquake, I slept with my parents and son in my car. Now, we are sleeping in house. At first, we had no water, electricity, or gas. Later, electricity resumed, and water came yesterday. It will take longer for gas.
(We cannot take a bath until gas is available.)
At first, we couldn’t buy food at all. Today, we are able to buy food, though many shops are still closed and we must wait in long lines to buy.
We cannot obtain gasoline yet. Many gas service stations are closed, and once we find a station open, we must wait 5-6 hours to buy. They won’t supply gasoline for a full tank (like up to 2,000-3,000 yen limitation), so we must return again soon. I am really tired of getting gasoline.
But, I hope things are getting better. Considering many people died, I am thankful for what we have.
Please do not worry. You need not send anything, because I am not sure if the goods will be delivered to our door. Transportation to Tohoku area is limited yet.
Love,
Masako"
A second e-mail followed soon after I wrote to her:
"Hello Kay,
I found another mail from you after I sent my last mail.
Thank you for worrying about my baby and offering a “vacation” in Hawaii.
I really appreciate it.
But, it is difficult to leave Sendai since I must go to work and my parents do not want to leave their house either. Norio already asked my parents again and again to come to his house in Akiu, because Akiu had water supply earlier than Yagiyama and they could take a bath without gas( with electric). But my parents refused. Their Yagiyama house is more comfortable for them.
I am still going to work, leaving my son with my parents. I had many busy days after the earthquake, since so many people rushed to my husband’s shop to buy cassette gas, electric pot, etc. as substitute for gas. Since he cannot collect enough supplies in Sendai, he had employees drive very far to Niigata everyday to obtain goods. (until a few days ago.) Since we cannot obtain gasoline in Sendai, we were getting it in Niigata so far.
I will write again when I can. Please do not worry so much.
Love,
Masako"
Ah, dear Masako. Very moving, what she said and what she did not say.
ReplyDeleteI would worry, too, Kay.
Our IDF medical team arrived in Tokyo today with 80 tons of supplies for the people. You can hear some Japanese spoken in a short video:
http://idfspokesperson.com/2011/03/28/idf-aid-delegation-plane-takes-off-for-japan/
I would be worried sick about the contamination of food and water in the area. What are people to do -- especially brushing teeth and bathing? What about plumbing?
ReplyDeleteI pray life gets better for your family in Japan, Kay.
Dear Kay,I am happy that your relatives are all alive, but the situation at the nuclear power plant makes me worry. Everywhere people are organizing events in order to collect money for Japan. Sometimes it's done with the Japanese people in the Netherlands. They are brave people and well organized. I hope that the nuclear problems will be solved soon.Love, Wil
ReplyDeleteKay, thanks for sharing, it's so moving and worrying especially the nuclear problem.
ReplyDeleteDear Kay -- Thank you for sharing Masako's letters. This is an amazing story of survival, and good that she still has a job to go to. I don't think you'll ever get her parents to leave. It's just the way of the devoted elderly.
ReplyDeleteLet us know if there's ever a time we can ship something. I wonder about sending liquid formula in the cans...or bottled water. Prayers for the people. DrumMajor
Thank you so much for sharing her emails which allow a glimpse into the world the people are having to adjust to.
ReplyDeleteI worry so for them and know it will be a long time before "normal" returns if it ever does.
I know you wish they would leave but can see her point.
They are all in my prayers.
It is so interesting to read Masako's words. Reading of their situation in her words is very moving.
ReplyDeleteMasako's letters are a testimony to the resiliency and strength of the Japanese people. Thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the "life on the streets" information. It's hard to know what's real (or not real) when you hear things on the news.
ReplyDeleteThe whole situation is still shocking and such an overwhelming tragedy. I am glad to know your relatives are okay. I am amazed at their resilience. I hope and pray that their recovery goes safely and as swiftly as possible.
ReplyDeleteI am glad Masako and her family are well. Reading her e-mail made me so thankful for everything we have here in the US! I hope she gets gas so she can bathe again. Prayers and hugs for your entire family!
ReplyDeleteThe Japanese people amaze me. Her spirit seems calm, thankful, and determined. Blessings on her and her family.
ReplyDeleteHow brave and calm she is! And, yes, the Japanese people do amaze me as well! One of my very dear friends from Japan is named Masako and she was in Japan visiting her mother at the time of the quake. She said it was such a frightening thing to experience. I hope things continue to improve for your family, Kay. I continue to hold good thoughts for you all!
ReplyDeleteSylvia
Oh Kay...this breaks my heart. I want your family to come to you, but I understand why they can't. Oh.. how are they going to rebuild. It seems that the power company lies and didn't prepare properly.. why is money so often put over people...I am so sorry and every time I watch the news from Japan, I think of you and your friends and family... the people are strong and they will recover though with broken hearts. sigh.. hugs...Michelle
ReplyDeleteSo glad that your family in Sendai is safe tho not clean. Yes, how truly wonderful that they survived. Thanks so much for the news.
ReplyDeleteShe edited that classic? All those old children's tales were very bloodthirsty. Very. LOL
You have a beautiful day.
Thank you for posting this "inside" update. It is good to hear the words of those who are living through this hellish nightmare. You are also very kind to offer a respite for your cousin. Hopefully, at a later date, they can take you up on the offer to get away.
ReplyDeleteKay;
ReplyDeleteI think of you and the people of Japan everyday. Thank you for posting this e-mail. A really moving account! Must have been really hard for you to read your cousins' account!
what a challenge, the people of Japan are certainly showing their strength and courage during this awful crisis...
ReplyDeleteHere is the latest about the field clinic our soldiers are setting up:
ReplyDeletehttp://idfspokesperson.com/2011/03/28/idf-aid-delegation-to-japan-arrives-and-sets-up-a-field-clinic/
Thank you for the update about your friends, Kay. I'm glad everyone survived and will be all right, eventually. This entire tragedy is so hard to fathom, and the terrible loss of life.
ReplyDeleteDina: That's fantastic! With all the problems Israel is facing today, it's terrific that the Israeli Defense Forces are using resources to help Japan. Wow! I imagine it wasn't super easy to find translators who spoke Hebrew and Japanese either.
ReplyDeleteSo glad to be able to read these updates from your family in Sendai, Kay. Thank you for sharing them with us. It seems the people of Japan have a long road ahead of them, and that is very sad, troubling, and frightening.
ReplyDeleteMy friend who went through the New Orleans crisis says that day to day survival took precedence over any other concerns. I wonder what will happen when the shock wears off.
ReplyDeleteHer news sources seem to be about the same as ours.
That picture from long ago really got to me. I am glad your relative is managing right now but the worry must be terrible for her, and for you.
I will talk to people at the senior center today and see what kind of aid they are involved with. Most of them are Japanese-Americans.
I thought you might like this story:
ReplyDeletehttp://fresnobeehive.com/news/2011/03/keep_the_food_coming.html
God bless you and your family. That post was so unbelievable. I send cyber hugs to you and prayers, too.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your family's news. I'm glad they are making do. They sound resourceful. It's a priviledge to be allowed to share in this first hand account of conditions in Sendai.
ReplyDeleteKay, thanks for sharing these letters with us. It makes the tragedy in Japan even more real to me. Again, I am touched by the depth of your connection to family. The resiliency of the Japanese people is amazing.
ReplyDeleteKay, thank you for sharing Masako's emails. Our prayers are with all Japan but we wish we could do more. I just hope they won't be forgotten now the Libyan conflict has blown up.
ReplyDeleteI am trying to locate my Japanese relates in Sendai. Please ask your family if they know them and if they have any information. My uncle is Masatoshi Suzuki, cousin's name is Masataka Suzuki and lives at 2-22-22 Miyaginoku Saiwaicho Sendai. My great aunt lived at 191 Higash Hachibancyo. Her name is kiyako Kihriyama. I would appreciate anything they can tell me. Was that street destroyed, anything. My mother is frantic.Thank you so much if you can help!
ReplyDeleteFrances Bonner
francesbonner1@yahoo.com
I sent a letter 6 days ago, do you know if they are getting mail, and what are they doing with it if the house is gone?
Frances: Another blogger gave me this Japan person finder and I put your cousin’s name into it. You can click on this link. I can’t read Japanese so I had my mother check and she says that according to this link somebody has said they’ve seen this person and he is alive.
ReplyDeletehttp://japan.person-finder.appspot.com/results?subdomain=&role=seek&small=&style=&query=Masataka+Suzuki
Here is the link to the person finder:
http://japan.person-finder.appspot.com/query?role=seek
I wish you much luck in finding all the people you are looking for.
Kay
This is very touching and I am glad they are safe. I bet they do worry about the melt down in that plant. Praying for them and wishing them the best.
ReplyDeleteBecause of Kay and her cousin Masako I was able to find my missing relatives in Japan. They were not affected by the earth quake and are fine. Thank you Kay and Masako. You went over and above! What wonderful sweet women you both are. I feel like I have two new friends. My family cannot thank you enough!
ReplyDeleteLove,
Frances