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Wednesday, February 10, 2010

That Sixth Sense

I'm sorry but I'm still neck deep in my genealogy project. I'm trying to organize what I'm learning and figuring out what to add to my photo-history album to share with all the relatives.

However, here's two things I thought I'd share just because it's so amazing to me.


I wanted to find a nice album to hold my 8.5" X 11" photo/history pages. (Blogger Steve, I'm afraid none of my relatives would be willing to dish out $200 for publishing so I'm trying to find the most economical way I can do this.) We finally found what I was looking for at Longs Drug Store down the street but they only had two of them and NO refills. I'd need 3 refills for each album because I'm up to 55 pages right now. I looked on the Internet and the shipping cost was staggering. I called countless other Longs Drug Stores on the island but nobody had them. We made a trip to Ala Moana to see if maybe they didn't know what I was talking about and actually had them. Nope! I was so frustrated I asked my daughter, Tiffany to get them for me in Chicago. I knew they had them.

Then tonight, Art and I went for a two mile walk (no, we're not afraid to drive our new Prius...sigh) down to our Longs to buy the two they had and have Tif buy the refills for me in Illinois. When we got to the store we found they had restocked! I was flabbergasted! A salesgirl came by and I told her how excited I was. She said, "Don't buy it now. It's going on sale on Sunday and I'll order more refills for you.

Wow!

Here's another story I learned.

My grandmother, my mother, three aunts and baby uncle were escaping north Korea for Japan. During that nine month journey my mother recounted getting used to death all around them. Their biggest terror was being captured and raped. One day, a Russian soldier on horseback saw her. She was about 16 at the time. When she saw him chasing after her she ran for the river. This was winter. She remembers seeing ice on the water. She looked behind and saw him gaining on her. The choice was the river or being captured. She chose the frozen river and managed to escape. To this day, she hates the cold.

Later, as they lay starving and tired beyond endurance, my grandmother felt all the energy she'd been trying to summon ebb away. She just didn't think she could go on. She realized finally that it was too much. She went to sleep thinking she would never wake again. That's when she saw a vision. She saw her hometown lighted with people going to a temple. They were praying. They were praying for her and her family, willing them to have courage to return to them. This was enough. It bolstered her determination to continue the journey.

When they got to Sendai, she told her parents about her dream and how it had kept her going. They were startled to hear her story and asked which day she'd had that dream. When she told them, they said with surprise that it was the very day that they had held a prayer service at the temple for her safe return.

My mother (that's a photo of her as a teenager, by the way) tells me her mother seemed to have a sixth sense and that one of my aunts as inherited it. Hmmmm...

So, Grandmother... thank you for your help from beyond with the photo albums. I'm working very hard to have your stories known to the family.

Ummm... and by the way, your grandson, Dennis has asked for some help also with that car accident your great grandson has gotten himself into...again.

21 comments:

  1. No end to the amazing stories.

    I look at this lovely face and see Tiffany.

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  2. Oh no, I hope your nephew's okay! (My kid crashed her first and only car too not too long ago...*sigh* but all's well)

    Your mother's a beauty! And it *does* seem your grandparents are watching over you as you work -- I hope you have plenty of help and good luck as you go, and thank you for sharing these wonderful stories.

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  3. You gave me shivers with the story of your exhausted grandmother. Your poor mother; so brave. What a special woman.

    Maybe you should think about having a separate blog just for these stories; that way, all the info would be in one place. Wherever it is, though, I'll keep reading: it is truly fascinating.

    As for the Prius - bad luck! There was an article in this country yesterday that said even if you are driving it to the dealers for repairs, if the brakes are faulty and you crash, you are at fault, and you are driving illegally. You should check if the same law applies there.

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  4. Your post was riveting! Resilience and the power of prayer...amazing.

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  5. Don't apologise for spending time researching your family history, there is life outside of the blogosphere, and we all need to remember that. And your descendants will be so grateful to you for your work. I hope your nephew is safe and well. I think it's a 'boy thing'; both of my sons had a couple of crashes, thankfully nothing too serious, after they first passed their tests, but both are good drivers now.

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  7. it's so wonderful you are preserving your family legacy with powerful stories and photos. They deserve that and are closer than we think..

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  8. What an amazing story. You mother was very brave and beautiful. I look forward to reading more of your stories.

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  9. So glad you found the albums you needed and what a wonderful story about your grandmother.

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  10. Wow, what an awesome story! I am surprised that your mother is telling you all this, since it gives her nightmares. Hopefully, it will be a cathartic experience for her.

    Not another accident for your nephew! I guess some people are just not meant to drive.

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  11. Isn't it fun to get into family history? The people become so alive and you feel a real connection. I need to get back to mine but right now I'm in blogging mode. Family history will cycle back around in time.

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  12. These are fascinating stories and what you are doing is a blessing for your family. Somehow knowing our family history makes a difference in how we perceive ourselves now -- especially if one claim relationship to extraordinary people like your grandmother.

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  13. Kay, we take so much for granted today, what an amazing story. Glad you found your albums too.

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  14. First, I do hope your nephew is ok. I have had plenty of experience with my two sons accidents...argh!! What lovely memories you are sharing with your family and for generations to come. Your research should take top priority! I am glad you found the right albums, its neat that the store re-stocked and the nice salesgirl told you about the sale! The photo of your mom is wonderful, a lovely woman.

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  15. What an incredible history your family has! And how wonderful that you're putting it all together so that your children and grandchildren will have so much wonderful/sad/scary history to inspire them as I know it will. And your Mother is a beauty -- you both are! Have a great weekend -- I know it will be busy!

    Sylvia

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  16. What a beautiful picture of your Mom! I agree with Dina I see Tiffany also! Hope your nephew is all right.

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  17. Thank you for sharing this inspiring story.


    Aloha, Kay


    Comfort Spiral

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  18. After you finish this project i think you must write a book based on these true stories...oh,i could well feel the fear she must have felt while jumping on an ice river escaping that Russian ....i shuddered.To think of all the troubles,hardship they experienced ....and we crib about small things in life.Your story made my eyes wet .

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  19. Amazing stories of strength and survival! What a history you are preserving!

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  20. good luck as you go, and thank you for sharing these wonderful stories.

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