My grandfather was drafted into the war just a month before it ended. He was then captured by the Russians and became a Prisoner of War in a Siberian work camp. He was kept there for 2 years. In that time, my grandmother had to somehow get her family back to Sendai, Japan. It was an escape fraught with danger from marauding Russian soldiers intent on killing or rape and the constant threat of starvation. Many people died making that trip or committed suicide.
My grandmother had four daughters and a baby son to care for. A train took them only so far and then it was all on foot. The journey took nine months. In preparing for their journey, one of the things my grandmother told her daughters was that they could get what they needed in Japan but their memories were irreplaceable. So they packed away their more precious photos that they could carry and managed to bring them the entire way.
Then each daughter left Japan to make their way back to the islands of their birth where they would find a way to support the rest of the family who was now destitute. One of the few things they brought with them was a portion of those priceless photos. This photo is of my grandmother, mother, sisters and a family friend in Sendai, Japan.Now that we've had several of those Cousins Parties, it occurred to me that it would certainly be a treasure if I could get all the photos together again after some 65 years, scan and share them with all the aunts, uncles and cousins. There is such rich history here and so many stories.
I thought I could do this relatively quickly... maybe a week or two. Yikes! It took on a life of its own. From just those photos in Japan and Korea, I began adding photos of cousins from Hawaii. Then there were the photos of us reconnecting with those faraway relatives.
It's been a life puzzle that I'm now making sense of. My brother, cousins and I have always heard the snippets of stories from the lives of our mothers but we couldn't quite put it together. It was often too painful for them to talk about. We knew they were in Molokai but when were they in Sendai? When were they in Yokohama? How did they lose their wealth? How long in Korea? How did our grandfather end up in Siberia? How did they end up eating locusts? How did he survive? Why did it take nine months to make that terrible journey back to Japan?
There are still quite a few questions but it's becoming clearer. Art suggested I make a timeline and that has really organized my understanding. Through the wonder of technology and email, my cousin in Japan (Thank goodness! She is able to understand English) has been able to fill in some missing pieces of information.
There's quite a bit to do yet but I'm seeing the light shimmering at that proverbial end of the tunnel.
What sad, but awe inspiring history your family has, Kay! How wonderful that you're able to put so many of the pieces together! And what a wonderful legacy to leave to your children and grandchildren (I'm sure there will be more to join KC). Hope you've had a good weekend!
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what a wonderful service you are giving, preserving your family memories and all the sacrifice that went on to keep everyone going. it always binds your living family to the contributions of their deceased ancestors to their present lives. good job! get others to help you delegate...
ReplyDeleteWow, what a history! My father was a WWII veteran who was sent to the Pacific, but he never spoke about those years at all. Your grandmother was very wise to make sure her daughters knew those memories are so important!
ReplyDeleteThe timeline is a wonderful idea. I have a feeling I'll be heading for the history section next time I go to the library.
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Wow, Kay, this was a most interesting post, I thought you must be deeply engrossed as we had not heard from you in awhile! Such a worthwhile project, to be preserved for future generations. great idea about the timeline.
ReplyDeleteYour post was so interesting Kay. I just cannot imagine what your grandmother and her family went through. How wonderful it is that you are working so diligently on this project so that the whole family can know of its history.
ReplyDeleteGoodness! What an interesting family history! You are so great to do this for the family. A wonderful legacy for all.
ReplyDeleteI can see why you have been so absorbed in this project! What a story your mother and aunts have to tell. I hope you can get all of your questions answered. now is certainly the time to do it while you still have them with you.It's amazing that they survived,let alone the precious photos.
ReplyDeleteIt is wonderful that you are getting the history of your family together Kay. Truly a priceless treasure along with all those amazing photographs.
ReplyDeleteWhat a huge (and worthy and interesting) commitment you have made! I have read a lot about the colony on Molokai. It is a fascinating (and often horrifying) story. I can't wait to see more of your family's journey.
ReplyDeleteInteresting that your mother and relatives chose to keep and transport all those photos. Many times, I have read about people whose homes were burnt to the ground. They all bemoaned the loss of their photos and memories.
ReplyDeleteYou are always busy on projects...this has been the most wonderful,interesting and inspiring project so far.I always leave your blog with a new lesson,inspiration ..honored to have you as a friend.
ReplyDeleteWrite a family history book Kay. Fill it with lots of photos, get a subscription (say a couple of hundred each) from your extended clan to help raise money, for the purpose of having a few hundred copies leather bound and printed on first class paper.
ReplyDeleteAsk for stories, help & an insert on each nuclear family. This helps to fill the book out to a big size - important, adds to the comprehensivesness of the tome, and means a lot of the legwork is done by members of the extended family.
Anyone who has anything...er.. less than positive to say about the book (once it is printed) can be told to pipe down until they produce a BETTER book. (better still, include a paragraph to that effect in the foreword)
Family history is so fascinating, and you must be so thankful that you've started piecing it together whilst there are still some of the older members of your family alive to share their memories. It's so much harder when there's no one left.
ReplyDeleteThis is a fascinating story, Kay. I really relate to it: we lived in SA during the 1994 elections and you could taste the threat of civil war breaking out in the run-up. I packed one tiny suitcase with everything that mattered to us and it was just photographs and family videos. Like your grandmother said, everything else is replaceable. Thankfully, our story turned out much happier and I was able to unpack my case.
ReplyDeleteI think Steve at the Pub's idea is excellent - even if you self-publish and only your family buy a copy (though I'm sure there's a market for it), how wonderful it would be for you all to have a record of your family history like that.
I'm looking forward to the next installment.
This is so awful and so wrong. I am in tears.
ReplyDeleteBut how wonderful that they carried the photographic memories with them on the dreadful journeys. That sense of history that goes on in your blogging, Kay.
God bless you all.
What a history for your family! That is really wonderful of you to scan all those photos but what a great legacy!
ReplyDeleteI have been there many times on that spot but when I was there the statue was replace by a cement one.
ReplyDeleteI know a few people from Sendai and still have the blog at sendai-shi.blogspot.com
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That's such a huge project. I ahve not started on my journey yet but I will soon! You give me hope that I will be able to do it! I have all my Mom's family pictures that she has.
ReplyDeleteThis is a remarkable story, I so enjoyed reading about your family and their plight. Thanks for sharing and have a nice day.
ReplyDeleteHope you've had a good weekend!
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