Since then, he's been going to 5 other places also to play the piano. He asked us if we would come and hear him play.

We got there just in time. He said he was pacing around outside thinking we wouldn't be coming because of the tsunami warning in the area. We didn't even realize there was a tsunami expected. He was happy to see us and had brought a giant avocado to share with us.

We settled down in the lobby area to listen to him play a lot of show tunes from the 30's to the 80's. After each song and our applause, he'd ask us to name the music and the show. I think we surprised him. He played songs like As Time Goes By, Smoke Gets in Your Eyes, Cabaret, Fly Me to the Moon, Some Enchanted Evening, That's All I Ask of You.

He said the only song he knew by heart was a song Frank Sinatra wrote called, This Love of Mine. Stanley said he sang it once after his wife died and his friend cried. He sang it for us.
This love of mine goes on and on,
Though life is empty since you have gone.
You're always on my mind, though out of sight
It's lonesome through the day,
But oh! The night.
I cry my heart out, it's bound to break,
Since nothing matters, let it break.
I ask the sun and the moon,
The stars that shine,
What's to become of it, this love of mine.
I couldn't help it. Tears suddenly came brimming to my eyes.

When his concert was over, Stanley invited us to his favorite "Cheap Eats" restaurant at Wong Kung Restaurant in Waipahu. We insisted that since he provided the concert, we would most certainly provide the meal.

The lunch special was $4.75! We were surprised at the generous, tasty servings.

I had pork broccoli and Art had eggplant with chicken. We liked our meal but Stanley wasn't very pleased with his oyster chicken. I took this photo after I'd already eaten almost half of it so you can imagine how big the serving size was. I really need to remember to take my photo before I start eating! Sheesh!
Since we started the morning with the Farmers Market, taking my mom to get her blood tested at the hospital and then out to breakfast, it's been a mighty full (of calories) day. I'm going to have to do some walking to expend what I've had fun eating today.
I'm sitting here feeling sad for Stanley and yet admiring him for continuing to want to share comfort and a bit of happiness with those who need it most.
it is sad to loose a loved one but good that he has something to do and friends that are supportive like you two.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful giver he is to share his gift of music with others. And, how lovely of you and Art to befriend him.
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely day & post, Kay!
ReplyDeletePlaying music at hospice meant a lot to me too, but I reached the "Enough" point after about a year of going every week.
That food looks ONO!
Aloha, Friend!
Comfort Spiral
Oh, yes, how wonderful that he continues to share the gift of his music with others! I'm glad you and Art met him and have become friends. I'm sure that brings a great deal of pleasure into his life, as I'm also sure it brings the same into your lives! And the food looks delicious! Great shots to go with a lovely post!
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Sylvia
It must have been so special for all of you for different reasons...for Stanley to share his feelings through his music and for you both to experience this beautiful side.
ReplyDeleteThe food in your post makes me hungry...with you and Gigi eating out a lot i think Hawai is a great place to dine out.I don't blame you to forget taking the pictures as soon as the food is served...
Did I mention that I love the new header? What camera did you use for that pic?
ReplyDeleteIt is fantastic that Stanley goes to the home to play for the shut ins. So few people remember them. The Oahu Community Concert bands will also play such venues free of charge if they're invited.
Stanley's playing also helps keep him vital and active. Being able to give is important to maintaining happiness and mental health. His continuing grief touched me. How wonderful he experienced such a great love.
Music is so therapeutic. I always listen to Pandora.com for my internet music fix. Drives David nuts because he prefers TV. He can hear the music thru his TV headphones.
ReplyDeleteQuilly: Thanks very much. That's a photo from your side of the island and I'm using my Canon 3IS.
ReplyDeleteYou made his day to be sure. I can just imagine the hurt this man goes through. Patty and I have been married for 54 years and are best friends, really, and I would miss her terribly if tomorrow I woke up to an empty house as it would be if she was not here with me. I am glad Stanley played for you and his choice of music is anchored in his memories.
ReplyDeleteThe glass pen you mentioned was very popular at one time when steel was in its heyday and I have a couple of them in brownish orange and clear glass. I have used them in ordinary dip pen ink or fountain pen ink. It is also best to slope the writing surface so the ink does not all run off the point the instant it touches the paper. The monks used a 60 degree writing desk to keep their quills level while writing.
Thanks for helping me to make history.
Pick a Peck of Pixels
You've made me love Stanley. What a lovely tribute to his wife to keep playing at the hospice; I wonder how many of those songs he plays were ones she loved.
ReplyDelete$4.75 for all that good healthy food, WOW. That's about €3.50 to me I'm guessing, which would only buy us a doughnut and small coffee. Or in Dublin, just the coffee.
How special. Sharing music and friendship is a wonderful thing.
ReplyDeleteHi Kay!
ReplyDeleteWhen I went to Guam, Hawaii also Canada, I saw fried meat with Broccoli.
In Japan we don't use Broccoli like that. So I was surprised!
The way people use vegetables is different depends on country!
This is a poignant post, Kay. I like the photo of Stanley's legs showing behind the piano. Very touching.
ReplyDeleteWhat a touching post Kay. Music has a way of bringing tears to the eye, especial in such poignant circumstances. Thanks for stopping by. Have a great day :)
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely post about your friend Stanley. What a generous, kind man to continue to share his music at the hospice. I too liked the photo of his feet behind the piano. How wonderful you and Art attended his concert and shared lunch with him, I bet it made his day!
ReplyDeleteKay, what a beautiful story!! When I read the words to the song Stanley sang to you I started to cry!! That is commendable of him to play the piano at so many places. What a lovely tribute to his wife!
ReplyDeletethose are wonderful, romantic songs he played, I'd have been in tears too, thanks for sharing your day.
ReplyDeleteWhat a heartwarming story! God bless you for your 'name that tune' piano session with Stanley. You are very special people.
ReplyDeleteAs long as he has music to give and friends like you, he will be OK.
ReplyDeleteThat's a great under the piano photo.
Must remember that restaurant if I should ever make it to Hawaii.
This made me tear up....
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