I asked several people to take me off their forwarded mail list because I was getting too much of it and I have been infected with viruses TWICE. It's aggravating. One friend sent the following rules for forwarding e-mails that I thought was actually worth forwarding on to you. I still don't like to get forwarded mail much but following these rules will probably make it safer.
Words To Live By. Please respect everyone's privacy by following the advice below!
A friend who is a computer expert received the following directly from a system administrator for a corporate system. It is an excellent message that ABSOLUTELY applies to ALL of us who send e-mails. Please read the short letter below, even if you're sure you already follow proper procedures.
Do you really know how to forward e-mails? 50% of us do; 50% DO NOT.
Do you wonder why you get viruses or junk mail? Do you hate it? Every time you forward an e-mail there is information left over from the people who got the message before you, namely their e-mail addresses and names. As the messages get forwarded along, the list of addresses builds, and builds, and builds, and all it takes is for someone to get a virus, and his or her computer can send that virus to every E-mail address that has come across his computer. Or, someone can take all of those addresses and sell them or send junk mail to them in the hopes that you will go to the site and he will make five cents for each hit. That's right, all of that inconvenience over a nickel! How do you stop it? Well, there are several easy steps.
Try the following if you haven't done it before:
(1) When you forward an e-mail, DELETE all of the other addresses that appear in the body of the message (at the top). That's right, DELETE them. Highlight them and delete them, backspace them, cut them, whatever it is you know how to do. It only takes a second. You MUST click the "Forward" button first and then you will have full editing capabilities against the body and headers of the message. If you don't click on "Forward" first, you won't be able to edit the message at all.
(2) Whenever you send an e-mail to more than one person, do NOT use the To: or Cc: fields for adding e-mail addresses. Always use the BCC:(blind carbon copy) field for listing the e-mail addresses. This is the way the people you send to will only see their own e-mail address. If you don't see your BCC: option click on where it says To: and your address list will appear. Highlight the address and choose BCC: and that's it, it's that easy. When you send to BCC: your message will automatically say "Undisclosed Recipients in the "TO:" field of the people who receive it.
(3) Remove any "FW :" in the subject line. You can re-name the subject if you wish or even fix spelling.
(4) ALWAYS hit your Forward button from the actual e-mail you are reading .. Ever get those e-mails that you have to open 10 pages to read the one page with the information on it? By Forwarding from the actual page you wish someone to view, you stop them from having to open many e-mails just to see what you sent.
(5) Have you ever gotten an email that is a petition? It states a position and asks you to add your name and address and to forward it to 10 or 15 people or your entire address book. The email can be forwarded on and on and can collect thousands of names and email addresses. A FACT: The completed petition is actually worth a couple of bucks to a professional spammer because of the wealth of valid names and email addresses contained therein. DO NOT put your email address on any petition. If you want to support the petition, send it as your own personal letter to the intended recipient. Your position may carry more weight as a personal letter than a laundry list of names and email addresses on a petition. (And don't believe the ones that say that the email is being traced, it just isn't so!)
Some of the other emails to delete and not forward are:
1. The one that says something like, "Send this email to 10 people and you'll see something great run across your screen." Or sometimes they'll just tease you by saying 'something really cute will happen.' IT AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN!!!!! (We are still seeing some of the same emails that we waited on 10 years ago!)
2. I don't let the bad luck ones scare me either, they get trashed.
3. Before you forward an 'Amber Alert' , or a 'Virus Alert', or some of the other emails floating around nowadays, check them out before you forward them. Most of them are junk mail that's been circling the net for YEARS! Just about everything you receive in an email that is in question can be checked out at Snopes. Just go to www.snopes.com . or www.truthorfiction.com It's really easy to find out if it's real or not. If it's not, please don't pass it on.
So please, in the future, let's stop the junk mail and the viruses.
good advice, I can't name the number of people I've told to use BCC and I rarely forward anything I recieve and have asked some people to take me off their list. It's so frustrating. Good info-thanks.
ReplyDeleteGreat advice
ReplyDeleteAloha, Friend!
Comfort Spiral
I don't use the BCC, but I think I will now. These are great tips. I get many forwarded emails and I don't want to risk anything. Thanks for sharing, Kay!
ReplyDeleteI love your banner photo! You always have great photo's!!
I didn't know about the BCC, thanks for all the info. I get so many forwarded messages! Tisk
ReplyDeleteVery informative advice...just last month a virus wiped off all of my pictures,other files ...the one who fixed it for me asked me to delete such mails without opening them...i follow it but sometimes i do open and forward them....now i will never do this.Thanks for sharing this .
ReplyDeleteAmen to that.
ReplyDeleteI find it very rude when people send me (and many others) stuff without using BCC.
K -- excellent post! I already knew all this stuff. I wish more people did. I always clean up any mail I want to forward. I generally use BCC. AND, I've let pretty much everyone know that if it says FW in the subject line I will delete without opening.
ReplyDeleteI've received this advice several times, but my computer won't do it. I try not to forward things with many addresses. When I want to do that, I just copy and paste instead to eliminate all the other names.
ReplyDeleteMuch good advice here, Kay.
ReplyDeletei never like the idea of forwarding mails to many ppl..
ReplyDeleteGreat advice. I must be much more cautious.
ReplyDeleteI've been doing this for sometime now and I'm so glad it was the right thing to do. I don't forward a lot of emails, but there are those that I want to share -- for whatever reason and I started eliminating all that stuff. Glad to find out I was doing a good thing. And I do check out things on Snopes.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the information.
Have a great weekend, Kay!
Sylvia
We have had some virus infections too and I had to reformat Patty's hard drive to get it back to working. So we never open forwarded stuff and she opens things from her brother that are all trash and why she does it I don't know. Anyway, I guess that's where her virus came from. I won't open anything unless I know who it is and then I am careful about it. I have enough virus protection on the machine to catch it, plus am setting behind a firewall. Anyway. Good post. Great advice.
ReplyDeleteOh forgot. You got to be careful with awards and things like that. When you forward or tag other people you may be passing along a virus in the form of an award. I don't accept awards, meme's or tags. I don't participate in any of this stuff as I have been burned more than one since we started blogging in 2001.
ReplyDeleteI don't receive many forwarded emails - probably because they know I disagree with them politically and won't forward the cutey "pass it on stuff". I usually eliminate the previous addresses if I do forward. I didn't know about the BCC. That must be what people use when I look to see who else got this and it won't tell me. My curiosity is thwarted.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Kay. I didn't know a lot of that info. Really good advice.
ReplyDeleteOh my gosh! You get viruses from Awards, too? Yikes! I don't pass them on anymore because I can't choose, and now I definitely won't. Sheesh!
ReplyDeleteThanks Kay! I love this and just mailed it to my niece. She never e-mails me to say "hello" or "how are the kids" but instead stuffs my inbox full of born-again-praise-Jesus propaganda. Yay. Hopefully this will put a dent in it.
ReplyDeleteI think it is great you posted this. I occasionally get forwards (though I do not send them on) and they are FULL of email addresses. The privacy issue concerns me as well as the virus problem. Often the email address has the full name next to it, so perfect strangers may read it. You've performed a terrific public service, Kay.
ReplyDeleteGreat information Kay, thank you! I've been using BCC for a couple of years now. I get many forwards from friends who don't, with many typical ones mentioned in this post. This would be a gentle nudge when I pass on the information. Love that new header too.
ReplyDeleteKay..I just delete anything forwarded and always delete jokes or other stuff...It is just the best way to stay safe...
ReplyDeleteHear hear!!! I've shared this advice with folks from time to time and I almost NEVER forward anything any more. I pretty much dump anything forwarded to me. Life's too busy for such nonsense.
ReplyDeleteHugs and blessings,