
A few nights ago, we were watching a Japanese movie with my mother. A five year old boy is sent away to be trained as a (samurai) vassal to his preteen Lord. It's based on a true story and the young actors on the show absolutely blew me away. How do you get these young children to memorize those lines and cry on cue? Incredible. Ahhhh... I digress...
Anyway, in one scene, the young boy's father visits his son at the monastery and tells his son how his family is all well but were proud of him learning to serve his master. The young boy had been treated to some candy and was eating his share but when he saw his father, he ran to him begging his dad to please give the rest of his sweets to his mother who he had been sorely missing.
That evening, the sweets were shared with the child's sibling but the mother took hers, carefully wrapped it and put it in her jewelry box.
This reminded me of the handmade soap that my son, Jon brought back with him from Ireland. Several years ago, Jon and his girlfriend were doing something called WWOOF (World Wide Opportunities on Organic Farms).
Here's what I found on the Internet about it:
WWOOF is a world wide network - It started in the UK in 1971 and has since become an international movement that is helping people share more sustainable ways of living.
WWOOF is an exchange - In return for volunteer help, WWOOF hosts offer food, accommodation and opportunities to learn about organic lifestyles.
WWOOF organisations link people who want to volunteer on organic farms or smallholdings with people who are looking for volunteer help.
Jon and Sarah loved their experience on Lambay Island in Ireland and met lots of friendly, wonderful people there. They loved the Irish people and enjoyed spending time doing a lot of different things including making soap from goat's milk. We cherished the special bars of soap he brought back for us to try that he had made with his own hands. However, we just couldn't bring ourselves to use them. We just wanted to keep it and look at them occasionally.
Last night, we gave my mother a bar to use and we used a bar ourselves. They are wonderful. It's hard to believe he actually made them. They seem more silky somehow and feel wonderful on your skin. I love using them. I have one little bar left now.
I think I'll keep it.
Being half Irish, my husband wants to visit Ireland. Thanks for the heads up about it. Someday, we'll go there.
ReplyDeleteKay, I laughed reading this! My closets are filled with gift soaps and gift candles and other things that I don't want to use because I loved the gift so much...it doesn't make much sense of course.
ReplyDeleteSo I'll start using them, and am glad to hear that they're still good after so long.
It is so nice that Jon had this experience. I bet he'll never forget it. I volunteered when I was about 19 years old with teenagers that were part of the Juvenile Justice system. It was a very rewarding experience for me - one that I will never forget.
ReplyDeleteThe soaps are wonderful! They sound heavenly! I would save one also, if only for the memory.
Hi Kay! It is wonderful that Jon had this experience. It think even better that you used the soap he made for you. I am sure sure this made him think of those wonderful memories and brought a smile to him.
ReplyDeleteHi Kay, what a sweet post and a lovely momento from your son's time with the WWOOF. I have never heard of them before. A fantastic experience for him to be sure. I visited Ireland the month before I met Gregg 33 years ago. I loved the country, the people, the culture, everything about it. I hope to go back some day.
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ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful memory. I bet when you were using the sosp, you were much more aware of how you felt at the moment! I am using almost all organic cleaners and soaps , just to help my body get well! I used an organic olive oil soap that I had been saving for "when" exactly! I think we all save special stuff for a later time!
lots of lessons in your post about valuing family and their sacrifices for us and serving others.
ReplyDeleteKay, what a wonderful post! I keep things that have been given to me as gifts too, not wanting to use them, but then finally I do!! Enjoy, the soap sounds divine!!
ReplyDeleteA lovely and beautiful post, Kay! Thanks for sharing. The soaps sound wonderful! And so does your son, Jon!
ReplyDeleteOh Kay, what a wonderful post today! (as always) What a fantastic thing for Jon & Sarah to do. And I loved the soap story, how many of us do the very same? It was nice of you to share it with your mother and what memories it brought back to you.
ReplyDeleteNice stories and connection of them. I hear ya.
ReplyDeleteNice to imagine Jon working around goats, or at least soap.
I WWOOFed in Australia. It is definitely a great organization.
Recently some countries were starting to say this is work that demands a work visa. Oi, no. So WWOOF changed their name from Willing Workers on Organic Farms to something like World-Wide Opportunities on Farms.
Oh how lovely. I am so glad you are using the soap. The Irish are wonderful people, the most friendly in the world.
ReplyDeleteI'm guilty of saving special gifts, like soap, too. But isn't goat's milk soap wonderful!? So soft
ReplyDeleteDina: Thanks for the "heads up." I've added in what WWOOF stands for now.
ReplyDeleteIt's small and meaningful things like this bar of soap that we cherish in life. I am the same way. Just to look at it once in a while and smell it would be enough for me. I'd hang on to the last bar too. Nice post, Kay.
ReplyDeleteVery interesting info! I'm sure you are very proud of your son and his contributions.
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