
I found my mother standing alone in the darkened kitchen this morning pondering while it drizzled outside preventing her from doing her laundry. I asked what the matter was and here's what she said.
"I had the strangest, clearest dream I'd ever had last night. I don't understand. Could it have been because we've just returned from our trip to Japan?
I was going to go on a trip to Hokkaido. I was in my 40's and Dennis (my brother) was in his 30's. That's not possible but it's what I dreamed. I was expecting my father to go with us. We were waiting at the pier for our ship to take us to Hokkaido. We waited and waited and waited but we caught no sign of my father. The ship was appearing in the horizon.
Then suddenly, there he was coming from a distance. He had a look of zazen (meditation)on his face and he was walking toward us slowly in a very peaceful, otherworldly stride. I called out frantically to him shouting, 'Father! Father! The boat is coming. Hurry!'
He looked up at us and said, 'So it is. I'll have to get ready.'
And then I awoke. What could all this mean?
My grandfather was a Buddhist priest who my mother idolized and we've just returned from seeing Hokkaido. I could see lots of subconscious reasons for her dream but she's still trying to have it all make sense. I know we'll talk about this later when she's had time to process it all.
It is strange sometimes, the dreams that we have. What do they mean, how do we interpret them. I hope your mother finds the answers to hers.
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ReplyDeleteStrange story... Brrr...
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ReplyDeleteI so enjoy your stories about your mother. Her dream is fascinating. What will come of it? Please let us know!
What a fascinating dream. I wish I knew what it meant!
ReplyDeleteDreams are so interesting aren't they? It's raining there?
ReplyDeleteA dashing image of a man, your grandfather? I enjoying perusing your blog. I especially love the "Hitachi" monkeypod tree. That is so funny that they called it after the commercial. It's a beautiful tree.
ReplyDeleteI love to dream. I don't try to find reason behind them. It just fascinates me.
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Dreams have always fascinated me. Some dreams you just never can make sense of.
ReplyDeleteHi Kay! There is generally a meaning behind dreams. The meaning will come, but probably when it is least expected. Lisa
ReplyDelete,dreams have always fascinated me though knows to be strange looking
ReplyDeleteThose words he said to her were a little soothing for me. Maybe your mom is reaching out to her dad. Toughts of calmness by him saying "I'll have to get ready."
ReplyDeleteI can see why your mother adored him.
ReplyDeleteNice that one can have a look of zazen while walking, not only sitting.
Mom's dream is full of the classic dream symbols. Ah, if only I could remember their meanings... Psychology class was so many years ago.
Such wonderful dreams seem to be a natural outcome of your Japan journey. Had any yourself?
It's interesteing to me how much detail of the dream stayed with her upon waking. And I figure any time you can hear and feel close to someone that you love so deeply is a good thing. I have a hunger to hear more about your Buddhist Priest Grandfather. How wonderful is that??!! Your mother is also a woman of deep spirit.
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