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Sunday, May 18, 2008

Peace Corps Volunteer



From the time he was delivered by his father just past midnight in an elevator almost making it to the obstetrics floor, my son was ready to see the world. He didn't cry at first light. He just took it all in. We named him after Jonathan Livingston Seagull and he's managed to live up to his name always stretching himself, always learning, taking risks. I've told him I've got a head of grey hairs that he's managed to give me.

When he first told us that he wanted to join the Peace Corps I remembered him breaking his right arm when he was three years old and then his left arm falling from the kindergarten monkey bars. I remembered him falling and splitting his chin open at the zoo...the broken toe at soccer practice... I remembered him going back for operations to fix his right arm. I remembered ..... Oh.... I remembered.

I could picture all kinds of things happening to him in some remote corner of the world. However, as soon as he was done with college he was off to Mali, West Africa. Where in the world is Mali, West Africa? We had to look it up and research it. We discovered that Timbuctou is in Mali. Malaria was a worry. He went full of dreams and goals and ideals hoping to make a difference but discovered it wasn't very easy for one person alone in a village to change how things had been done for centuries.

Peace Corps has a school partnership program so I happily partnered my first grade classes with him. He wrote letters to them and answered all their questions. One wonderful year I even won an essay contest to have my class talk to him by speakerphone. The children never forgot this incredible experience and whenever they came to visit me in later years would always ask first where Jon was. From knowing Jon, the world opened up even more for my students. A Malian teacher who became Jon's fondest friend there came to my class to share his culture with us. Often times, American children think of Africa as a country instead of a continent with countries full of diverse cultures. My classes and their families and all the other first graders in the other classes became aware of the rest of the world. It was beautiful.

I think Jon, at times was discouraged about his accomplishments during his 27 months in Mali and I don't know if he fully understands the incredible impact he made on my class whose minds were enriched and awakened by a young fellow who went across the ocean and brought back the world for them.

Jon wrote this for somebody else once, "While in Africa, I read a reference in a Saramago book about immortality. He said that the impact you have on others, affects the choices they make and the impact they have on other people. This process is passed on and keeps going long after you. It is said that this is a kind of immortality."

I believe that this is true of Jonathan as well, and I'm very proud of him.

18 comments:

  1. great son, what is he doing these days? i've had two sons serve missions for our church, one in taiwan and one in japan so it was wonderful to learn more about those countries, their culture and people. we are definitely all one great family.

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  2. Your son sounds like a really special young man. He has clearly left a footprint in the hearts of many young people, and will have made a real difference to their lives. Is he home now? What are his next plans? I'm sure he'll continue to worry you and make you proud in equal measures - that's what children do!

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  3. Wow. You have every reason to be proud of Jon. What courage and commitment he had to travel to Mali, and what an impact he obviously had on your students. And he's handsome, too!

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  4. Thank you, everyone. He really is special and with hair, he's even cuter.

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  5. You must be very proud of your son.
    My cousin was in Mali as a missionary for a few years. It's very interesting to learn about people in other countries.

    Have a nice week :)

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  6. Wow, I would be proud too. Sometimes I think our impact is sometimes not what we expect, but only good can come from helping people, and that can change the world a little at a time.

    "While in Africa, I read a reference in a Saramago book about immortality. He said that the impact you have on others, affects the choices they make and the impact they have on other people. This process is passed on and keeps going long after you. It is said that this is a kind of immortality."

    Such a fantastic phrase. I think that your son may have a little of you in him. You have done good!

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  7. I tried to comment earlier but had computer problems. Your son is a fine young man who has made a difference in many lives. He is surely not one of the "good men who do nothing".
    Also, I wanted to thank you for your kind comment on my blog. I can tell you are a gentle, sweet person.

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  8. Sometimes people don't realize how much their actions...and their words impact others. I can understand why you're so proud of your son. He is a wonderful young man!

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  9. You named Jon after the seagull?! How appropriate and idealistic!
    What a source of nachat Jonathan is for all of us who know and love him. (Nachat=the Jewish term for the feeling of pride and joy one feels for the likes of Jon.)
    Know there can exist a family like yours is a great source of hope for me.

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  10. Hi, sounds that you have a very thoughtful son and family, you have made this post feel thoughts straight from the heart., lovr the photos too.

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  11. You have every right to be proud of your son. I am proud to hear what a great person he is.

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  12. Your blog is beautiful. I'm so glad you visited mine, so I could know to visit yours. I love your previous entry too about being happy. I plan to come back.

    I will gladly share my sky with you anytime. I am sure you see many beautiful skies in fulfilling your travel dreams.

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  13. Thanks for sharing that wonderful story-- even though your son is not famous or well-known, he certainly has had a positive influence on so many lives-- like the ripple effect - and surely his mother deserves some of the credit!!

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  14. What a moving tribute to your Jon and I was especially touched by his type of 'immortality.' You must be so proud--and doesn't time fly from the playground accidents to changing the world!?
    Thanks for visiting me. I'm glad I found your lovely & inspiring blog.

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  15. You certainly have reason to be proud of this wonderful young man. I'm sure he takes after his mama :-)

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  16. I just found your blog through your comments on my Sky Watch Friday! I'm so glad I followed your link!! Please forgive me for not commenting on your Sky Watch, I had a plane to catch! I flew up to Boston, Massachusetts for a Sister Weekend with my 3 SisterDears!

    Your son will do great things in his life! He has a loving, old soul.

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  17. Your son is a "brave" man.
    Africa is a place of such diversity and contradictions. Doing what your son is doing is not for the faint hearted and I hope it goes well and that he eventually sees the fruits of his labour.
    My son is a pilot flying for the United Nations in a North African country and I often wonder what it is that makes him stay.
    I was born and raised in South Africa and love the place, even though it is not always plain sailing.

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  18. This was a wonderful read and what a wonderful person your son has become. As a previous teacher myself I understand the impact that communication and sharing has on others.

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